father and son talk

psychical contact is not only hugging or kissing your son on the face, psychical contact is also talking. when the father talking to the son it make them feel comfort and encourage is to affirm the son, a lot of time son need their father to encourage them.
for example like sometime the son will ask why am i so different then any other boys. the reason why they feel these way it because the rejection that come from the boys in the classroom, why they feel rejected it because the boys in the class good at sport but he does't or some boys is strong but he is soft. sometime the son need the father to release that something is going on even through these are the small problem but it will effect the son growing up.

when i was in my primary school, i feel so rejected by all the boys in my classroom. because they all are good at sport, at home i feel that i am in a compering my brother at all thing like study, sport. because of these i really which my dad would have encourage me, saying like you are different then all the boys some boys are good at sport some don't but at the end is you having fun that is the most important. the reason why i don't go for my dad it because i told him that i don't like my babysitter he just ignore me these may seem small in my dad eyes but is really big. the most painful part is my dad compare me with my brother i remember that my dad show that he is proud of my brother by taking the picture with his school uniform that was his first day at the primary school. i was so hurt and i just kept it inside my heart, after few years God say to me Kent you need to forgive you dad.
i was like i have forgive my dad in a proud way, but at the end God help me to realize that i haven't forgive my dad. i was like God why do want to solve the problem in my life, let me just cover it up by just blaming my father.

God show me that there are other way and is the best way, he say to me that i need to have conflict with my dad and when he ask forgive you have to receive that healing of forgiveness. father and son will have the conflict, that conflict will build up relationship with my dad. because father and son will have different life style but at the end the person that love you the most is father.